How to Do Anything

There are 3 major steps to achieving anything you want:
  1. Decide
  2. Become (believe / program your subconscious / feel / have the energy of the thing you desire)
  3. Take the Right Action ( Actions that will naturally come because your subconscious will MAKE YOU DO THEM if you've done the first 2 steps; I will detail on this further on)
After step 2 there is an invisible step that your subconscious does on it's own in it's own mysterious ways but some people do not believe in metaphysical stuff so I'll just omit it now. Briefly said, the subconscious can communicate with all the existing minds and it has some special ways to make things easier for you but since it's not your job I'll just leave it out.

1. How to Decide

The first thing to do is to realize that you DO have to make a decision. You cannot do anything unless you decide to do it. The second thing is to realize that you do have a choice - you're not a victim, it's not out of reach, you CAN do it ( It doesn't mean you will ... but you CAN! Will you choose to do it? )

Society doesn't teach us how to make REAL decisions. Usually, our parents, teachers, friends teach us to do what we can do because some things we can do and some things we can't do so we better do what we can. That is still a decision but it's a forced one. That's why it feels like sh*t! We don't want to do it but we choose to do it because we have to. A typical example for many people is the job that they have. Do they love it? Are you excited about your job? Did you really want it? Or did you have to choose it?

So how do you realize that you do have a choice? It's very simple: objectively take a look at the situation and at 2 possible outcomes. Let's say you're still living with your parents. You can have your own place and your own money. Now sit and THINK about it! What do you choose?

( If this does not apply to you, choose whatever you wish to achieve right now. It's the same process, no matter what you want to do. Also, it is a good example because if you already have your own place, you can remember how you made that decision and what happened after. )

A. I will continue to live with my parents for a very long time. I will not have my own money. I will not be free to do whatever I want, whenever I want. I choose to live that! And when you think about this, IMAGINE IT! Really see it in your head! FEEL IT! Realize that one year from now, you'll still be where you are now!!! Realize it! DO IT!

B. I will have my own money. I will have my own place. I will be free to do whatever I want, whenever I want. I will feel free! I choose to have this! I will have what I want to have!
Same as above: see it, feel it, realize it!

You have A and B now, two distinct pictures / realities. Now it's easy: make a choice! Choose A or B. Don't think if you can or can't. Just choose! Choose what you want and what makes you feel good. Choose the thing that you desire. You don't have to search now for a way to do it. Just make a choice! A or B?

How Do I Know that I Really Made the Choice?

Go in front of the mirror and ask yourself what is the choice you made. Now answer. Do you believe your answer is honest?  If it is a definite, honest, strong answer, proceed to step 2. If not, sit in front of the mirror and repeat the process. Put your heart into it. It's your future you're deciding here! And that includes the present because once you make the choice, it will start to gradually change your current situation and you'll begin a new adventure, walk in a new direction.

2. How to Become / Believe / Feel

Now that you've made your choice, this will be easy. Just sit down somewhere and think about how this decision will change your life. Imagine all the details. Think about how much good it will bring and how good you're gonna feel. Don't daydream! Don't perceive it as fiction! It is not fiction, it is not a metaphysical trick or anything like that. You are simply thinking about the way things will be after you achieve your goal. You're simply doing what you have to do to predict how your decision is going to affect your future.
Think about it as often as you can.

When you observe your current reality, think about how you're leaving it behind. Say bye bye to it. It's slowly drifting away. You're gonna miss it a little... but not too much :)

All of this will help you become a new person. Why? Well... just be the new you because only the new you will...

3. ... Take the Right Actions

Once you become the person you decided to be, it's impossible to take the same old actions. You are a different person now. It's obvious that you'll also act different.

You can take the wrong actions only if you become the wrong person.

You can't think of an action to take, you can be lost, you can not know what to do, only if you didn't become a new person. If you do the same things ( that also includes doing nothing ), it means you are the same person.

The right person will always take the right actions. He/She will know what to do, when to do, how to do. Happy New Life! :)

2 comments:

  1. Great post, I like the part about the visualization in the future self. Visualization is a very powerful tool. The only thing I would add to that is that your old beliefs will battle with the new ones you're trying to construct. Visualization can be more powerful when you're able to let go of the old beliefs. At this point the last obstacle would be that your old beliefs may be attached to fear. And this has to be conquered to let go of the belief. Overcoming fear can be difficult and it is a process. But it can be done!

    Out of this comment I hope I'm wrong, is there an easier way to reprogram your beliefs?

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  2. I have 2 posts on this site about how to change a belief.

    The old beliefs get into your way if you're visualizing with the purpose to GET SOMETHING or GET THERE. But if you're visualizing with the sole purpose of just imagining how it would be like, just make some kind of research of a possible future then beliefs don't get in your way anymore.

    Even though the brain is a terrible master and keeps you running around in circles, it can also be easily "tricked".

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